I have no idea how I stumbled upon this video but it has a powerful message about family; the love and the control we should have over it.  Our love is not dependent on anyone or anything, as parents our love is unconditional and unending.

We sometimes feel like walking or running away from the trials and sufferings in life but ultimately we end up embracing those members of our family and give them another chance, not because they deserve it but because everyone makes mistakes in life. One or more mistakes doesn't mean there is not a possibility to rectify and be redeemed, it just means they are not that strong. We, as the strong parents, should be the ones standing up for them and letting them lean on us. It's not easy to see them make mistakes but it is worst if they can't find someone to trust.